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Melanoma is Most Common Cancer for Young Adults Ages 20-30

2012 May 23

By Maribeth Bambino Chitkara, MD

It was almost a year after her initial diagnosis at the age of 26, just around Thanksgiving, when we found out that my younger sister Melissa’s melanoma had spread. From that point on, Melissa’s battle with melanoma was a blur of surgeries, radiation and chemotherapy. I came home to be with her as often as I could, and would stay with her in the hospital each time she was admitted. I’d try to sleep in the chair next to her bed, but would oftentimes push her over in the middle of the night and make her share the bed with me the way we did when we were kids. I was so amazed by her resilience. She’d go into the hospital for surgery, and be on the phone two days later talking to her clients from her hospital bed. I don’t think many of her friends and co-workers even knew how serious her condition was because she was so incredible at bouncing back.

Feeling so far away, my husband and I decided to move to New York to be closer to our families. I was pregnant with my son when we moved. Melissa embraced my pregnancy and could not wait until the baby was born. She stayed with me in the delivery room while I was in labor, wiping my forehead, cheering me on and encouraging me to be strong. Always the inspiration to me, we decided to ask her to be my son’s Godmother and of course, she accepted.

It was shortly after my son’s christening in the fall of 2003 that we learned that Melissa’s cancer had not only spread to her brain, but to more lymph nodes, her liver, and her spine. Her doctors started her on more chemotherapy, but we knew it was only a matter of time. Three days before Christmas, she was admitted to the hospital because she was very weak. On Christmas Eve, she slipped into a coma and died two days later. My family was with her when she passed, each holding her hands and hugging her. It was very peaceful and full of love. I feel blessed to have been with her.

I know now that as a pediatrician, I have to make a difference. I cannot let my sister’s death be in vain. Parents need to know how to protect their kids against the sun and its harms. Since Melissa has died, I’ve decided to change my career path to try to be a louder voice for melanoma. I figure that by telling people her story and making them understand how awful a disease melanoma is, maybe more deaths can be prevented. This is the best way I can think of to honor her memory. Please learn more about how to be SunWise this Don’t Fry Day.

About the author: Maribeth Bambino Chitkara, MD, lost her younger sister to melanoma at the tender age of 29, and wants to remind you to be SunWise on “Don’t Fry Day” and every day.

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4 Responses leave one →
  1. Jeanette Hall permalink
    May 23, 2012

    I too had a mole on the inside of my r forearm that changed (lacy on the edges, asymmetric, black, brown, red and navy in color) removed when I was aged 32, thank God it hadn’t spread and they got it all. I had loved to fish and swim and got lots of burns as a kid. Now I have a few more moles that have showed up on my arms so I am going to derm appt in a few days. If it’s new or changes get in right away. I worked with a gal from Florida when the melanoma was discovered , she kept telling me it looked funny and sure enough it was the fast growing melanoma. She really saved my life. I am so sorry you lost your young sister to this cancer and I am so grateful that you have chosen to be an advocate and educator for this killer skin cancer. God Bless you and your family.

  2. May 24, 2012

    Thank you for sharing your story. This is horrible I’ll make sure not to get too much sun and make sure my son is not in direct sun light for too long. Thank you for raising my awareness this

  3. May 24, 2012

    I’m speechless… cancer is a terrible disease and your history shows the hard that can be to live with a loved one with this malignant disease. God bless you.

  4. Sports Probe permalink
    November 9, 2012

    its really horrible..many people now a days engaging/suffering in this kind of disease..but this one is dangerous

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